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And just like that, she’s 10. ✨ I’m not sure And just like that, she’s 10. ✨
I’m not sure how that’s happened but it’s flown by in a flash and what a 10 years it’s been - you are such a placid, quiet and sensitive little soul, and we couldn’t be more proud of you and how far you’ve come, Isla. We love you so much - HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 🤍✨ 
BRB just off for a little sob 😭⭐️
How lucky they are to have you as their Daddy. 💙
Thinking of anyone who finds today difficult. ✨
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HEY IT’S MISS BRIESIES 🍎✨ Countless SCITT HEY IT’S MISS BRIESIES 🍎✨ 

Countless SCITT assignments, reflective worksheets and a crazy amount of lesson plans for evidence, two PGCE assignments, a maths retake and a LOT of actual teaching of lessons - meant that yesterday I found out that I was awarded QTS! 

I am officially a qualified primary school teacher! 

I can’t tell you how proud I am of myself. I worked so, so hard for this and to finish on such a high, as well as with a JOB at a wonderful school… I honestly couldn’t be more thrilled. 

I know that I’m also so lucky to have had the most amazing support within school, and outside of it, and I genuinely couldn’t have done it without my circle of fab colleagues, friends and amazing family. 🤍 I have to say my MH hasn’t been the best this year because imposter syndrome is just wild but I’m really trying to keep reminding myself that I’ve been given these opportunities for a reason. ✨

Just goes to show that a redundancy doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the road, but a ramp up to something that makes you 1000% happier. 

🍎 BRING ON ECT Year 1! 🙌🏻
If you’re a bit shy, just wear sunglasses and ca If you’re a bit shy, just wear sunglasses and carry your MooMoo, because they make you invisible! ✨ 

What a cute day with our favourites this weekend. 🇬🇧✨🤍
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Feeling lucky that I get to spend a whole week wit Feeling lucky that I get to spend a whole week with my littles and love. 💕✨
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A year ago today, we got engaged.💍 Next year we A year ago today, we got engaged.💍
Next year we’ll be married and starting a whoooole new chapter of life together - me annoying you even MORE.😎
ILY @adam.brown____ 🤍✨
Daddy’s come home and we had picky bits in the p Daddy’s come home and we had picky bits in the park for dinner. 🤍 Any sort of meal is tricky with a toddler at the minute, and this was no exception but it was so, so nice to get out of the house and let the kids run around for a bit. The last photo makes my heart burst!✨
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30 brought me SO much love, much needed change and 30 brought me SO much love, much needed change and new memories with all of my favourites - here’s to 31 doing the same and more. ✨🎈🤍
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LIFESTYLE · 10th January 2017

On putting other bloggers down

I wanted to stay up and get this written out before it didn’t seem to be too much of an issue for me. I’m currently watching Man in the High Castle, feeling slightly poorly, and I should definitely already be asleep for work tomorrow.

Anyway, earlier this evening (it’s Sunday, goodness knows when this will go live), I saw a couple of tweets that truly irritated me. Berating fellow bloggers, yet again. I can’t really be bothered to go into detail about it because… well, you probably know the type of thing I’m talking about. I don’t really understand the reasoning behind it, but the funny thing is, I see posts from the same people praising girl bosses too – the irony.

I’m going to be completely frank here and say it’s petty. It’s petty, and jealousy driven and bitter and in the words of Jenna from 13 Going on 30 – “You’re rude, and mean, and sloppy and fizzy, and I don’t like you at all.” Haha, no but seriously – I don’t see how this is ANY different to the awful content that Vogue editors have given the green light to in recent months?

Where is your positivity? What is it that you’re really, truly unhappy about? Over the course of the last few years, I’ve really learnt that you’re in charge of your own destiny. If you’re not where you want to be, you have yourself to blame for that – no one else, and to put other bloggers down for their successes because they have worked their arses off, quite frankly seems silly.

There are a few options for you to consider here, and I’d strongly consider doing the first one, regardless of whether this matters to you or not:

  • FOCUS ON YOURSELF. It will make you so, so much happier.
  • What will make YOUR blog better? And what are the steps you need to take to get there?
  • Reframe your mindset, and turn every negative thought you have on it’s head – shit, that blogger has X bag, but how has she got to afford it? What can I do to do the same!?
  • Going along the same vein, who are your favourite bloggers? Why? What can you take from their hardworking, girl boss, sassy work ethic?

I’ve started muting or purely just unfollowing people who spout bad spirited things about people, because I really just do not need that kind of negativity in my life. *sassy red dancing lady emoji*

I completely understand that it’s so easy to get caught up in the tide and compare yourself to everyone that works in this industry, but give it everything you have to offer, off your own back, and use your fellow bloggers’ as a guide to push you to improve and be just as amazing as they have grown to be.

 

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And just like that, she’s 10. ✨ I’m not sure And just like that, she’s 10. ✨
I’m not sure how that’s happened but it’s flown by in a flash and what a 10 years it’s been - you are such a placid, quiet and sensitive little soul, and we couldn’t be more proud of you and how far you’ve come, Isla. We love you so much - HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 🤍✨ 
BRB just off for a little sob 😭⭐️
How lucky they are to have you as their Daddy. 💙
Thinking of anyone who finds today difficult. ✨
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HEY IT’S MISS BRIESIES 🍎✨ Countless SCITT HEY IT’S MISS BRIESIES 🍎✨ 

Countless SCITT assignments, reflective worksheets and a crazy amount of lesson plans for evidence, two PGCE assignments, a maths retake and a LOT of actual teaching of lessons - meant that yesterday I found out that I was awarded QTS! 

I am officially a qualified primary school teacher! 

I can’t tell you how proud I am of myself. I worked so, so hard for this and to finish on such a high, as well as with a JOB at a wonderful school… I honestly couldn’t be more thrilled. 

I know that I’m also so lucky to have had the most amazing support within school, and outside of it, and I genuinely couldn’t have done it without my circle of fab colleagues, friends and amazing family. 🤍 I have to say my MH hasn’t been the best this year because imposter syndrome is just wild but I’m really trying to keep reminding myself that I’ve been given these opportunities for a reason. ✨

Just goes to show that a redundancy doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the road, but a ramp up to something that makes you 1000% happier. 

🍎 BRING ON ECT Year 1! 🙌🏻
If you’re a bit shy, just wear sunglasses and ca If you’re a bit shy, just wear sunglasses and carry your MooMoo, because they make you invisible! ✨ 

What a cute day with our favourites this weekend. 🇬🇧✨🤍
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#mumstyleblogger #caseyashermartin #islasophiaalexandrab
Feeling lucky that I get to spend a whole week wit Feeling lucky that I get to spend a whole week with my littles and love. 💕✨
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#familydayout #spring #babyboy #babystyle #familyblogger #motherhood #family #momentsinmotherhood #motherhoodstyle #petitejoys #documentyourdays #capturingmotherhood 
#mumstyleblogger #caseyashermartin #islasophiaalexandrab
A year ago today, we got engaged.💍 Next year we A year ago today, we got engaged.💍
Next year we’ll be married and starting a whoooole new chapter of life together - me annoying you even MORE.😎
ILY @adam.brown____ 🤍✨
Daddy’s come home and we had picky bits in the p Daddy’s come home and we had picky bits in the park for dinner. 🤍 Any sort of meal is tricky with a toddler at the minute, and this was no exception but it was so, so nice to get out of the house and let the kids run around for a bit. The last photo makes my heart burst!✨
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#mumstyleblogger #caseyashermartin #islasophiaalexandrab
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